Let’s face it. Men are more often than not pretty useless when it comes to shopping, planning, and generally getting things done, especially in weddings; hence, why many a bride end up taking on all the responsibilities and suffering from post-traumatic stress disorders.

Well, if you want to take a more proactive approach and actually contribute a thing or two to your wedding preparations, there’s no reason not to. After all, it’s as much your day as your bride’s, and it’s only fair that you hold your end of the bargain, whether it’s only to participate in cake tasting, or shopping for groomsmen gifts. The easiest way to do all these is to start with a checklist. Don’t know how to start? Don’t fret, you, like other men, can find your niche in the women-dominated business of weddings with the help of GroomsOnline.com.

Started in 1999 by former DJ Mark Walerstein who realized that there’s not enough resources for would-be grooms, the website has since built up a huge following of panicky grooms with over 60,000 unique hits per month. In this site, you can get advice on your attire, bachelor party, and honeymoon planning. You can also connect with like-minded individuals in an all-groom forum. You can enjoy video, participate in polls, and read blogs. And if you visit Mark’s other site, GroomsOnlineGifts.com, you get unique ideas for groomsmen gifts.

The site gives planning a wedding from a groom’s perspective a light-hearted approach, so you won’t be unnecessarily pressured while still getting things done. Your bride will definitely be thankful. Indeed, Grooms Online is definitely your best man and your bride’s best friend.

And when after the wedding hoopla has died down and you’re settling into the life of blissful domesticism, you’ll probably be checking out DiaperDude.com next, especially with the impending arrival of the pitter-patter of little feet. This is a site also created by a man who realized there wasn’t enough resources for men, this time for fatherhood.

Indeed, from groom to father, you need not be lost and hopeless anymore, thanks to these fantastic websites for men. And yes, no post-traumatic stress disorders for you!